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    The Shiddie Co.

    Some candles just smell good.
    My candles also say something.

    I pour every candle myself. Small-batch, in my kitchen in San Diego. Each one carries a theme I wrote and a message I left for you on the back.

    "Make the most of life's little shiddies."

    My dad was in Search and Rescue. He ran toward the hard stuff and called it a lesson. He passed in 2021 and left me with one thing I could not shake — make the most of life's little lessons. I took that, along with a particularly stinky bathroom moment, and poured it into wax. The Shiddie Co. is what came out. Every candle is a theme I wrote. Every back label is a message I left for whoever needs it. This is not a candle company. It is a practice.

    — Andrew Stillman

    Writer. Candlemaker. Yogi, Yosemite Valley.

    The Story

    Five candles. Five Vibes.
    One for exactly where YOU are.

    Every word on the back is a lesson worth lighting up.

    Flush Your Shiddies
    001

    Flush Your Shiddies

    Letting Go

    Hand-poured with love.

    Every back label features a unique message about letting go.

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    Give 'em the Shiddies
    002

    Give 'em the Shiddies

    Go Get It

    Hand-poured with love.

    Every back label features a unique message about energy and grit.

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    Own Your Shiddies
    003

    Own Your Shiddies

    Be Who You Are

    Hand-poured with love.

    Every back label features a unique message about being exactly who you are.

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    Calm Your Shiddies
    004

    Calm Your Shiddies

    Relaxation & Realignment

    Hand-poured with love.

    Every back label features a unique message about relaxation and realignment.

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    Hot Shiddie Energy
    005

    Hot Shiddie Energy

    Boss Energy

    Hand-poured with love.

    Every back label features a unique message about boss energy and being the one in the room.

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    What Makes a Shiddie Different

    01

    A scent built for a feeling

    I blend every scent myself until it hits that moment. No bulk lab formulas. Just my nose and a lot of test burns.

    02

    A theme written for a moment

    Every flagship candle carries a theme I wrote — and rotating messages on the back. Not affirmations. Writing.

    03

    Something waiting on the back

    Flip it around. I left you something back there. It changes. It is always for wherever you are.

    Which shiddie is yours right now?

    I made seven candles for seven different moments. Answer three questions and I will tell you which one is for you right now.

    Limited Runs

    Seasons
    Change.
    So Do
    The Pours.

    What's pouring this season.

    Small batch means not everything is always available. Throughout the year, I pour limited runs of seasonal scents inspired by the shift in the air, the weather, and the moment.

    Once they're gone, they're gone. Catch them while they're here.

    Same scents. No flame required.

    For the spaces where you can't strike a match, the Shiddies Room Sprays deliver the exact same small-batch, intention-driven scents as the originals.

    Own Your Shiddies

    Stay solid.

    Clean Your Shiddies

    Out with it.

    Holy Shiddies

    Well, shiddie.

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    The Shiddie Co. Candle Back Label

    I am a writer first. The candles are where my writing lives now.

    "This isn't shame. It's sacred scrubbing. You're worth the effort."

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    I sell most of my candles in person. Come smell them.

    Pop-ups are taking a break for the summer. I'll be back out there this fall and winter.

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    Andrew Stillman - Founder

    Written by hand.
    Poured with intention.

    I grew up in Yosemite. I earned my Eagle Scout. I went from writing alone in the woods to contributing to publications around the world. I teach yoga. I travel. And now I hand pour candles and curate scents in my kitchen, small batch because my dad taught me that the hard moments are the life lessons. This is what that looks like when a writer gets his hands waxy.

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